Facts about dating older men
I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:– They're not ambitious enough, or they don't have a go-getter attitude.– They're not financially stable.– They still want to date around.– They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.– They don't have their sh*t together.
By the time they're 27, they could be sleeping with a sexy Chewbacca for all they care. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.
I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me, and from my relationships comes some of the best memories and experiences.
I still get the common response from my friends: “He's too old for you! ” I've also had a few people in my life suggest that I do it because I am a “gold digger.”So, the broad answer is this: To clarify, I'm not dating older men because I am a “gold digger.” It's more important for me to pull my own weight and be financially stable.
Additionally, an older man will probably really enjoy talking things over with you.
By asking him about important decisions you're thinking of making, he will not only be able to offer insights, but he will also feel recognized and appreciated.